No problem hon. I used to believe that unconditional love was either a farce made up by people seeking to pray on others or a myth made up by romantic fools. But at the risk of kinda rubbing my good fortune in your face (I hope it doesn't come out as that way), I recently found this out when I came out to my grandma as trans and bi this past weekend. Despite being 81 years old, she accpted me completely and just wanted me to be happy. I'd never had known what the lenghs of her love for me, but now I know that somehow, unconditional love is possible.
Someday you will find this out too, it just take patience though the wait may be hell on earth for us.
I also wish to add to sttaus_quo's point that another precondition for unconditional love for others is unconditional love of oneself. The fact that people cannot give unconditional love to you probley has more to do with thier own demons rather than being a problem with you.
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Date: 2007-12-20 02:16 am (UTC)From:Someday you will find this out too, it just take patience though the wait may be hell on earth for us.
I also wish to add to sttaus_quo's point that another precondition for unconditional love for others is unconditional love of oneself. The fact that people cannot give unconditional love to you probley has more to do with thier own demons rather than being a problem with you.